The Numerological Meaning and Purpose of Your Marriage Day

The following definitions and purposes are the numerological explanations for the month, day and year of marriage reduced to a digit between 1 and 9. This digit represents a strength each partner can bring to the relationship. It also represents a challenge to be resolved through this relationship. The purpose of the relationship defines what the partners are to learn from each other. The strength, challenge, and purpose of each marriage number is:

The formula for discovering your “marriage number” is to add together the month, day and year your were, or are to be, married. For example, if your marriage date was December 27, 1998, convert December (the twelfth month) to 12. Next, add the numbers together as follows:

· 1+2+2+7+1+9+9+8 = 39

· 39= 3+9 =12

· 12= 1+2 = 3 Your marriage number is 3.

The purpose of this marriage is to learn about emotional honesty. Each of you are to learn to overcome anxieties associated with feelings of inadequacy or abandonment. Both of you are to learn to overcome emotional insecurities and to individually develop your creative talents.

The strong points of the relationship are both partners can be: Intelligent, witty, creative and likeable. The challenges to the relationship are that one or both partners may have a tendency to exaggerate, be moody and/or be withdrawn.

Determining the Reason for A Divorce

These same numbers can be used to determine why a divorce happened; to do this just interpret the “challenge” number derived from the divorce date. For example, a divorce date of April 1, 2008 would yield a total of 2013 (4+1+2+0+0+8=13 1+3=4) which reduces to a 4. Look up the challenge for 4 and it can illuminate the reason(s) for the divorce.

(Issues of Ego–Self)

Strong Point

Self-directed. Leaders

Challenge

Passive/aggressive toward each other.

PURPOSE

To learn to resolve self-esteem issues by doing what you love instead of to be loved or to maintain control.

(Issues Involving Others)

Strong Point

Mediators/arbitrators. VERY friendly.

Challenge

Non-communicative. Overly sentimental.

PURPOSE

To learn to work together as partners in an adventure . . . each supporting and encouraging the other to make their individual dreams a reality.

(Issues Involving Communication and Social Interactions)

Strong Point

Intelligent. Witty. Creative. Likeable.

Challenge

Exaggerates. Moodiness.

PURPOSE

To learn about emotional honesty by overcoming anxieties associated with feelings of inadequacy or abandonment and to learn to overcome your insecurities and individually develop their creative talents.

(Issues Involving “Getting It Done”)

Strong Point

Dependable. Organized. Systematic. Logical.

Challenge

Procrastinator. Stubborn.

PURPOSE

To learn to begin “projects” without the need for the pre-approval of others. To overcome rigid and inflexible attitudes when dealing with others.

(Issues Involving Change and Movement)

Strong Point

Flexible. Physical. Playful. Innovator.

Challenge

Inflexible. Impulsive. Inconsistent.

PURPOSE

To learn to develop the confidence that will enable them to deal with the changes of daily life. To learn about moderation in all physical activities.

(Issues Involving Family, Community, Relationships)

Strong Point

Responsible. Service oriented, Domestic.

Challenge

Perfectionist. Nosey. Irresponsible.

PURPOSE

To learn not to undertake obligations, commitments, relationships, or responsibilities involving others before obligations to the family. To be supporters, not enablers, of their partners,

(Issues Involving Trust, Skepticism, and Control)

Strong Point

Analytical. Intuitive. Empathetic. Open.

Challenge

Impatient. Controlling, Anxious.

PURPOSE

To learn about emotional vulnerability by becoming a partner in the relationship rather than the facilitator of it. To learn to overcome anxieties dealing with abandonment and humiliation. To become more patient when dealing with others.

(Issues Involving Power, Money, and Status)

Strong Point

Leader/Organizer. Politician. Business oriented. A “doer.”

Challenge

Easily frustrated. Stubborn. Materialistic. Demands recognition.

PURPOSE

To be more like Bob Cratchit than Ebenezer Scrooge, in their relationships (A Christmas Carol, by Charles Dickens). That is, both are to learn to be less materialistic and more compassionate with their wealth and abundance. This could be a business partnership.

(Issues Involving Selflessness)

Strong Point

Fits in anywhere. Selfless. Emotionally balanced.

Challenge

Egotistical. Can’t let go. Everyone’s emotional pincushion. Overly emotional. Unemotional.

PURPOSE

To learn to let go of emotional attachments based on fears of abandonment, To be involved in activities and relationship not for recognition, appreciation, thanks, love, or control but to be involved because it is their joy, and their passion.