Interpreting The Numbers of Your Middle Name (The Emotional Self)

Your middle name represents how you behave emotionally, the type of people you are attracted to, and why you are attracted to them. If you have no middle name you have chosen this lifetime to learn to balance with your emotions. You may swing between being emotionally intense or emotionally “flat.”

Our emotional relationships enable us to evolve emotionally and spiritually by allowing vulnerability into our lives. Numerically, the word relationships equals the number 66, a master number. Six is the number for love, 66 represents unconditional love and acceptance of all things from a cosmic perspective, i.e., every thing is connected or related. It is through these loving experiences that we rediscover our true Self. The more we allow ourselves to be emotionally vulnerable (6), the more compassionate (66) we become.

The information presented here is a fraction of what is taken into consideration when determining an individual’s emotional personality; however, as a thumbnail sketch they are accurate.

Using the chart below, determine the numerical total of your middle name. For example, if your middle name is Benjamin, the B represents 2, the E is 5, the N is 5 etc.. When you are finished, add all of the numbers then reduce them to a single digit.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9

A B C D E F G H I

J K L M N O P Q R

S T U V W X Y Z

B E N J A M I N

2+5+5+1+1+4+ 9+5 = 32 3+2= 5 Benjamin’s emotional number is 5.

Interpreting the Numbers of Your Middle Name

(One or more characteristics may apply.)

1. Wants to be in charge or may feel unworthy; may feel emotionally self-sufficient

2. Needs a partner; strong need to share; desire for harmony and peace; a compromiser; doesn’t always speak up in a timely manner; may need to work on sensitivity issues. May also have difficulty “letting go” of emotional and sentimental attachments.

3. A romantic; not always optimistic; not very confrontational as they do not like disharmony; could have emotional “ups and downs”; can be a cheer leader/optimist; a tendency to exaggerate; can have explosive emotional outbursts. May have difficulty being “emotionally intimate.”

4. Wants stability; can be somewhat judgmental; may procrastinate until certain of their emotions; finds it easier to give than receive; can be stubborn; may not be very romantic; may be controlling

5. Can be either to rigid or to flexible; may be a flirt; emotional “flightiness”; relationships meet physical needs; may seek multiple relationships; may have rigid attitudes.

6. Wants to be the cosmic mother/father; domesticity is very important; loves love; likes to counsel others; faithful & true; can be a perfectionist; may become involved in co-dependent relationships (as the care giver); may take o the roll of a martyr; may have unrealistic expectatios of self and or others.

7. Somewhat aloof, withdrawn, or impatient; needs a spiritual partner; controlling to “make certain” everything goes well; a very strong need to be needed; feels hurt when advice is not accepted, finds it very difficult to be emotionally vulnerable; can be the “greatest lover ever” or cold and distant

8. Has a temper; wants to be the boss; wants to delegate to others; can become frustrated if partner does not share their intensity; everything must pay; not very romantic; foreplay is not important . . . when they are ready they are ready and if not, they don’t want to be bothered

9. Can be loving, spiritual, unselfish, compassionate or very emotional, intense, and ego-centered; finds it difficult to “let go”; a “Mother Theresa”; can perceive themselves as “the great lover”; may find it easier to give than receive; may have a tendency to be overly dramatic. May have a tendency to try to control situation’s and interactions (liked to abandonment issues.)

Interpretations for the Numbers 1 – 9

Every number has a positive and negative flow of energy. In this instance the words positive and negative do not indicate good or bad they represent a directional flow of the energy of your choices.

Issues Dealing With Ego–Self

Positive

Self-directed, leader, paradigm buster, innovator, assertive, energetic, balanced, follows internal guidance, confident, centered

Negative

Passive, aggressive, indecisive, low self-esteem, egocentric, fearful, a zealot, a bully, arrogant, timid

Issues Involving Communications or Interactions with Others

Positive

Sensitive, intuitive, cooperative, a mediator/arbitrator, friendly, communicates in timely fashion, detail oriented, tactful, loyal, diplomatic

Negative

Shy, overly sentimental, timid, careless about “things,” codependent, does not/can not speak up for self, self-centered, brusque

Issues Involving Self-Expression or Feelings of Adequacy

Positive

Joyful, witty, artistic, charismatic, charming, creative, intelligent, optimistic, romantic, communicator, extrovert, visionary, manifestor

Negative

Moody/emotional, non-forgiving, scattered, introverted, exaggerates, vain, feelings of inferiority or inadequacy, leaves things unfinished, doesn’t know when to stop talking, exaggerates, does not/can not communicate

Issues Involving Control, Work, Completion, or Procrastination

Positive

Organized, a builder, systematic, logical, dependable, practical, manager, ability to totally focus on a task, a logician

Negative

Prejudicial, a reactionary, a procrastinator, unimaginative, gets lost in minutiae, stubborn, goes by their “book”, confrontational, stubborn

Issues Involving Change, Movement Or Flexibility

Positive

Flexible, freedom loving, physical, enjoys life, loves innovation and change, curious, can be moderate

Negative

Rigid, impulsive, self-indulgent, inconsistent, promiscuous, physical excesses, too yielding to others

Issues Involving Family, Community, or Relationships

Positive

Responsible, advisor/counselor, protector, humanitarian, service oriented, domestic, compassionate, helpful

Negative

Perfectionist, martyr, nosey, overly protective, difficulty making commitments, co-dependent, irresponsible, doesn’t want obligations-commitments-relationships or responsibilities

Issues Involving Trust, Skepticism, Control, or Abandonment

Positive

Trusting, spiritual, analytical, psychic, introspective, empathetic, objective, open and vulnerable, a seeker of knowledge, fearless, patient

Negative

Controlling, fearful, non-trusting, impatient, a need to be needed, a need to be appreciated, emotionally closed, emotional or physical paralysis as a result of being overly analytical, totally disconnected emotionally, a zealot, a martyr, messianic feelings

Issues Involving Power, Money, Personal Status, or Control

Positive

Initiates/delegates/orchestrates, logical, likes to be in charge, a leader, makes it happen… good at politics or business and commerce or leading institutions or organizations

Negative

Easily frustrated, angry, extravagant/cheap, dictatorial, stubborn, materialistic, demands recognition, a bully, fearful of using personal power, can be disloyal if they feel slighted or ignored.

Issues Involving The Higher–Self, Long Distance Travel, Endings

Positive

Selfless, loves unconditionally, compassionate, a natural actor, loves long distance travel, comfortable with all strata’s of society, healer

Negative

Egotistical; needs recognition, appreciation, and thanks for their “good deeds”; difficulty letting go; can be fearful of showing emotions…can be emotionally isolated or codependent…can be an “emotional pin cushion”, needs to maintain emotional control