The Numerological Meaning and
Purpose of Your Marriage
© Michael Brill 2003
The
following definitions and purposes are the numerological explanations for the month,
day and year of marriage reduced to a digit between 1 and 9. This digit represents a strength each partner
can bring to the relationship. It also
represents a challenge to be resolved through this relationship. The purpose of the relationship defines what
the partners are to learn from each other. The strength, challenge, and purpose
of each marriage number is:
The
formula for discovering your “marriage number” is to add together the month,
day and year your were married. For example, if your marriage date was
·
1+2+2+7+1+9+9+8 = 39
·
39= 3+9 =12
·
12= 1+2 = 3 Your marriage
number is 3.
The purpose of this marriage is to learn about emotional
honesty. Each of you are
to learn to overcome anxieties associated with feelings of inadequacy or
abandonment. Both of you are to learn to
overcome emotional insecurities and to individually develop your creative talents.
The
strong points of the relationship are both partners can be: Intelligent, witty, creative and
likeable. The challenges to the
relationship are that one or both partners may have a tendency to exaggerate,
be moody and/or be withdrawn.
1
(Issues of Ego–Self)
Strong Point
Self-directed. Leaders
Challenge
Passive/aggressive toward each other.
PURPOSE
To learn
to resolve self-esteem issues by doing what
you love instead of to be loved
or to maintain control.
2
(Issues Involving Others)
Strong Point
Mediators/arbitrators.
VERY friendly.
Challenge
Non-communicative. Overly sentimental.
PURPOSE
To learn
to work together as partners in an adventure . . . each supporting and encouraging
the other to make their individual dreams a reality.
3
(Issues Involving Communication and Social Interactions)
Strong Point
Intelligent. Witty. Creative. Likeable.
Challenge
Exaggerates. Moodiness.
PURPOSE
4
(Issues Involving “Getting It Done”)
Strong Point
Dependable. Organized. Systematic. Logical.
Challenge
PURPOSE
(Issues Involving Change and Movement)
Strong Point
Flexible. Physical. Playful. Innovator.
Challenge
Inflexible. Impulsive. Inconsistent.
PURPOSE
To learn
to develop the confidence that will enable them to deal with the changes of
daily life. To learn
about moderation in all physical activities.
6
(Issues Involving Family, Community, Relationships)
Strong Point
Responsible. Service oriented, Domestic.
Challenge
Perfectionist. Nosey. Irresponsible.
PURPOSE
To learn not to undertake obligations, commitments, relationships,
or responsibilities involving others before obligations to the family. To be supporters, not
enablers, of their partners,
7
(Issues Involving Trust, Skepticism, and Control)
Strong Point
Analytical. Intuitive. Empathetic. Open.
Challenge
Impatient. Controlling, Anxious.
PURPOSE
To learn about emotional vulnerability by becoming a partner
in the relationship rather than the facilitator of it. To
learn to overcome anxieties dealing with abandonment and humiliation. To become more patient when
dealing with others.
8
(Issues Involving Power, Money, and Status)
Leader/Organizer. Politician. Business oriented. A “doer.”
Challenge
Easily frustrated. Stubborn. Materialistic. Demands recognition.
PURPOSE
To be more like Bob Cratchit
than Ebenezer Scrooge, in their relationships (A Christmas Carol, by Charles Dickens). That is, both are
to learn to be less materialistic and more compassionate with their wealth and
abundance. This could be a
business partnership.
9
(Issues Involving Selflessness)
Strong Point
Fits in anywhere. Selfless. Emotionally balanced.
Challenge
Egotistical. Can’t let go. Everyone’s emotional pincushion. Overly
emotional. Unemotional.
PURPOSE
To learn
to let go of emotional attachments based on fears of abandonment, To be involved in activities and relationship
not for recognition, appreciation, thanks, love, or control but to be involved
because it is their joy, and their passion.
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a workshop, contact Michael at 561 866-5479 or email him at Michael@awakener.com .