Each of us seek the ideal partner, and yet statistically almost 50% of marriages end in divorce. One can only imagine the percentage of "partner's for life" relationships that have ceased to exist. Why is it so difficult to find your twin flame? (Birthed from the same seed of creation.) Why is it so hard to find happiness? Why do we feel so alone in a densely populated world? Why do some of us cry out for a relationship but are fearful of being vulnerable? Why are emotional relationships so important to us?

Our emotional relationships (66) enable us to evolve both emotionally and spiritually by bringing vulnerability into our lives. The number 66 (relationships) is a master number. Six is the number for love, 66 represents the unconditional love and acceptance of all things from a cosmic perspective, i.e., every thing is connected/related. It is through these loving experiences that we rediscover our true Self. The more emotionally vulnerable (6) we allow ourselves to be, the more compassionate (66) we become. The more compassionate we become, the closer we are to our divinity.

How do we find our ideal mate? Where do we look? How do we get them to notice us?

Before we begin looking outside of ourselves for a relationship, we must first have a relationship with our Self. I'd like you fold your hands over your stomach. Now look at the way your fingers have interlocked with each other. This is what we seek in a partnership, some one that completes us. Now, pull your fingers a part and notice the gap where there was a completion. If we look for someone to complete us, we become co-dependent on each other and if one of the partners leave, the other returns to a state of incompleteness. How can we maintain a state of completeness even if our ideal partner leaves? We maintain our wholeness of self by first mastering a relationship with our Self. Look for someone that complements you not completes you.

Using the following technique will help you complete your Self.

To draw your ideal mate into your life, practice the following technique. Start by making a list of at least seven characteristics you want your partner to have. For example:

1. I want someone that can be emotionally intimate . . . that can express their feelings and share their fears as well as their dreams.
2. I want someone that is athletically fit.
3. I want someone that is intellectually curious.
4. I want someone that is sexually adventurous.
5. I want someone with no children or no children living at home.
6. I want someone exciting.
7. I want someone that is not married to their job.

You can add to this list everyday and make it as long as you want until you have 30 volumes.

Now, review your list and put a check mark next to each item that you are proficient in or have mastered. If you want someone that is athletically fit and you are 30 pounds overweight, you need to lose weight and become fit if you are to attract that energy into your life.

If you can't put a check mark next to a request, it indicates that this is something you need to work on, to draw that energy to you.

By becoming proficient in or mastering those characteristics we seek in our partners, we begin to radiate energy much like a lighthouse that can be seen by ships through miles of darkness. Our ideal partners are not only "out there" they are moving toward us everyday and the clearer we are about what we seek, the more energy we radiate, the easier it becomes for them to find us and for us to find them.

The most important point is not to allow your head to determine your choice of partners, but to listen to your heart. Our heart is the doorway through which are Soul's speak to us. Our Soul is always aware of what is best for our evolvement on this third dimensional plane. Our head is the seat of our Ego (Easing God Out) and is only concerned with survival and physical appearance.